Valentine's Day is basically celebrated by two groups of people: those who are in love and children who have visions of eating conversation hearts and chocolate candy. Since we do not encourage either of those things with the children at school, what would be the best way to celebrate Valentine's Day with children? We decided to focus on love--God's love for us, our love for Him, and brotherly love between each other.
Paul taught that as the Spirit of God is alive in our lives we will display His fruit. Much like we can look at an apple tree, or a peach tree, an orange tree, a banana tree, or any other fruit bearing plant and identify the type of tree it is, so people should be able to observe us and by the fruit we bear, know that we have His Spirit in us. Our Bible discussions this week focused on those fruits--love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. We discussed what each of those things mean and what it looks like in our behavior to exhibit those qualities.
We made a form, bordered in hearts, for each child to give to every other child. This special Valentine includes a space for the giver to list at least three positive qualities they appreciate in that person. It could be one of the fruits of the Spirit or any other encouraging trait. It was interesting to see how the children thoughtfully considered each of their friends and the uniqueness of that person.
Yes, we will have a little party with red fruit, heart shaped cheese, valentine cookies, and juice. We decorated paper bags and will let the children exchange any Valentines they bring from home, but our emphasis will be on how much God loves us and how we can express His love to those around us.
How do you celebrate Valentine's Day with children?
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